Fri Mar 27 11:42:59 HKT 2020 From /weblog/learning

communication

https://medium.com[..]ers-i-learned-from-bartending-6a5f36829b

https://www.zmescience.com[..]g-trust-and-we-need-that-more-than-ever/

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Fri Mar 20 07:29:06 HKT 2020 From /weblog/learning

focus

How to train focus - https://www.infoq.com/news/2017/01/attention-awareness-teams http://www.infoq.com/cn/news/2017/01/attention-awareness-teams

Once you build self-control through a chosen activity, you do a better job exerting self-control in other situations. - https://qz.com[..]r-thanks-to-the-science-of-self-control/

17 yrs don't speak... - https://dq.yam.com/post.php?id=7898

5 hours rule, every day spend an hour to read/reflect/experience, 5 times a week - http://www.businessinsider.com[..]and-oprah-all-use-the-5-hour-rule-2017-7 https://medium.com[..]-all-embrace-the-5-hour-rule-8836f554da1

Why focusing is important - https://www.theverge.com[..]-practice-training-neuroscience-research

How To Dramatically Sharpen Your Attention And Focus = https://medium.com[..]en-your-attention-and-focus-416444802997

How to due with information overload - https://betterhumans.coach.me[..]-hurts-us-and-how-to-escape-4a2924800e16

獨自練習（反覆針對問題點，進行大量重複聚焦式的練習。）
全神貫注（因為很容易累，要搭配充足睡眠。）
保持覺察（不要讓自己在練習時，因為習慣了就開始不思考。隨時抓出關鍵轉折點，然後針對問題，重點密集的練習克服。）
拆解專家的技術，去分析其心智模型（不斷討論，思考他為何要這麼做？）
接受專家高質量針對性的回饋（後期可以透過心智模型自我回饋） - https://www.inside.com.tw[..]ecrets-from-the-new-science-of-expertise

How to concentrate - https://medium.com[..]-no-such-thing-as-motivation-e02edd7de30

https://markmanson.net/attention-diet

https://getpocket.com[..]-focus-and-get-more-meaningful-work-done

Ignoring distractions or temptation is harder when you’re tired, stressed, or trying to remember something - https://www.zmescience.com[..]ognitive-control-ignoring-cues-925346345

唐鳳愛用番茄鐘工作法是什麼？教你提高專注力、重新奪回生產力 - https://www.inside.com.tw[..]icle/19127-how-to-use-pomodoro-technique

https://kevinabdulrahman.org/stay-focused-at-work/

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Sat Feb 29 20:54:01 HKT 2020 From /weblog/learning

language

How to learn language in 30 days - http://www.fourhourworkweek.com[..]k.com/blog/2009/01/20/learning-language/

http://www.articlesbase.com[..]power-of-daily-positive-words-15115.html

Language make the difference - http://www.chinahush.com[..]shocked-by-chinese-multiplication-table/

crazy-facts-about-languages - http://list25.com/25-crazy-facts-about-languages/?view=all

http://list25.com[..]nguage-fluently-quickly-and-efficiently/

5 tips for learning Mandarin - http://www.chinahush.com[..]-great-advice-from-a-variety-of-experts/

Choice other than "Regards" - https://www.inc.com[..]/email-sign-offs-for-every-occasion.html

Resource of learning a lot difference languages - http://learn101.org/

Bubble physics can explain why dialects appear and how they evolve - http://www.zmescience.com/science/dialect-physics-paper

語言的高與低 - http://www.eisland.com.tw/Main.php?stat=a_P7V8dWZ

Learning music or a foreign language can help your brain be more efficient - https://www.zmescience.com[..]sic-bilingual-brain-efficiency-17052018/ https://medium.com[..]n-healthier-and-learn-faster-4a67e82dd81

For learning Chinese - http://www.chinese-learning.cn/#/web

Language Alters Our Experience of Time - https://getpocket.com[..]m/language-alters-our-experience-of-time

This is How You Can Learn All Programming Languages, Yes - “all” - https://www.infoq.cn/article/8STbPDW9M9xVGVc2eVIP https://hackernoon.com[..]l-programming-languages-yes-all-c41j3t8l

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Wed Feb 19 21:57:03 HKT 2020 From /weblog/learning

performance

焦慮能讓你表現更出眾 - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20120711/hea075016.asp?source=rss

Importance of finding out your Signature Strengths - http://traderfeed.blogspot.com.au[..]ature-strengths-and-trading-success.html

索托說：“你應該從改變行為做起，接下來，如果你能長期保持這種新行為，這種行為就會被鎖定下來。”他說，如果能獲得心理治療師的指導，你可以在幾個月之內看到持續的變化。你也可以學著自己管理你的性格特征，只是要花費比較長的時間。
那么，你應該從哪做起呢？加州德爾馬(Del Mar)的心理學家理查德‧萊瓦克(Richard Levak)表示：“首先，我們必須認識到性格中有哪些因素對我們構成了影響。如果我愛發牢騷，好爭辯，還有點多疑，我總是因為跟同事吵架，老是責怪別人而被解雇，那我就必須意識到得改變一下。”
萊瓦克說，這和糾正暴飲暴食這種壞習慣相似。要想減肥，你就得認識到自己什么時候以及為什么會暴飲暴食。萊瓦克博士表示：“如果你有戒心過重和好斗的傾向，你就要對自己說：‘好的，當我老板過來跟我說話，而我立馬感覺老板在挑我的刺，想要自我防衛的話，那我就是反應過激了。’讓自己冷靜下來，不要爭吵。”
不要把期望值定得太高。耐心一些。索托博士說，要把一種有意為之的行為變成習慣，需要花費很長時間。不要太擔心其他人的反應，因為你的變化通常是他們樂于見到的。

http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20140502/lif114051.asp?source=rss

How you can use your negative emotion - http://www.theatlantic.com[..]reat-depression/304247/?single_page=true

Performance improvements… or experiments? - http://letstalkaboutjava.blogspot.com[..]ormance-improvements-or-experiments.html

http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]e-you-operating-in-peak-performance.html

This, I find, is the single greatest impediment to pursuit of excellence: Most of us are simply too busy doing our jobs well to become truly world class at what we do. I occasionally ask traders to go back to old journal entries and tell me how much time they spent reviewing those entries and assessing their progress over the past week. In the great majority of instances, the journal entries are never revisited! - http://www.forbes.com[..]ndar-into-a-peak-performance-tool/print/

10-questions-can-dramatically-change-life and business (I don't think so, but anyway a good reading) - https://thenextweb.com[..]ns-can-dramatically-change-life-business

零成本提升工作和健身效率之道：科學擇時 - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20180206/OPN163737.asp

Another article about why it is important to do thing at right timing - http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]dont-i-trade-my-plan-when-i-plan-my.html

a) Using a Calendar
b) Working in Shorter, Uninterrupted Segments
c) Mindfulness
d) Self-Reminders

http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]cognitive-behavioral-techniques-for.html

https://medium.com[..]els-i-find-repeatedly-useful-936f1cc405d

The point is finding the prime time - https://medium.com[..]m-won-t-make-you-successful-b3c77921d9fd

https://medium.com[..]wer-of-doing-nothing-at-all-73eeea488b8b

http://www.bbc.com[..]-evolved-and-its-benefits-versus-modesty

https://medium.com[..]y-changing-your-environment-270ce4f141e9

Slow and steady wins the race - https://www.zmescience.com[..]cience/short-breaks-memory-skill-2363625

The highest levels of productivity and well-being are likely to come from a good balance between persevering through hardship toward attainable goals, and disengaging from action plans that lead to unrealistic goals - https://elemental.medium.com[..]ower-look-like-in-the-brain-8cafd0c024ec

The Nine Habits to Increase Your Energy - https://getpocket.com[..]/the-nine-habits-to-increase-your-energy

https://www.mikkolagerstedt.com[..]tivity-boosting-habits-for-photographers

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Sun Jan 05 20:47:21 HKT 2020 From /weblog/learning

method

Sometime implicit training is better - https://www.zmescience.com[..]cience/penalty-taking-football-29082018/

Use password to remind you - https://medium.com[..]-a-password-changed-my-life-7af5d5f28038

https://getpocket.com/explore/item/the-myth-of-learning-styles

I've often mentioned that successful performance professionals spend more time working on their game than in actually playing - http://traderfeed.blogspot.com[..]o-ways-of-achieving-trading-mastery.html

https://getpocket.com[..]-hardest-part-about-learning-hard-things

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Sun Jan 05 20:46:39 HKT 2020 From /weblog/learning

child

When child lie... http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20120508/lif074336.asp?source=rss

How to encourage child - http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_4701280b0102ek51.html

http://www.hackerchick.com[..]4/09/fun-ways-to-teach-kids-to-code.html

Give Child some duty for good - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20141229/PHO095935.asp?source=rss

步入青春期的孩子最需要從父母那裡得到什麼? - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20160824/LIF092635.asp?source=rss

初中男生多煩惱，父母可知道？ - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20161220/LIF162636.asp?source=rss

研究發現和沒有做家務或者十幾歲才開始做家務的孩子相比，3-4歲就開始做家務的青年成人更有可能和家人及朋友關系融洽、學習優秀、較早實現事業成功及經濟獨立。 - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20170105/LIF172240.asp?source=rss

https://blog.google[..]uter-science-and-computational-thinking/

專家回答：這不容易，但還是有可能的。人際關系專家兼咨詢專欄作家April Masini說：“家長既要讓孩子繼續保持這種精神氣，又讓他們知道自己行為的後果，要在兩者之間找好平衡點。”她稱，家長可以通過具體的事例，來給孩子講述，在什麼場合、用哪些方法來質疑老師和長輩是OK的，還要解釋這樣做的可能後果。你這樣教育的目的，是讓孩子知道，有時候規則可以打破，邊界可以移動，但行為卻是會帶來風險的。 http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20170222/LIF145613.asp?source=rss

如何培養出真正的成年人 - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20170526/OPN173543.asp?source=rss

所以，你要做的不是告訴你的孩子冷靜下來，而是應該告訴他們，有機會展現自己的才能，是一件特別幸運的事。<- this is a simple suggestion - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20170626/LIF172732.asp

No gifted child - https://www.theguardian.com[..]such-thing-as-a-gifted-child-einstein-iq

公平地“偏心”。確保每個孩子都得到優待：例如，如果把周末花在女兒的足球比賽上，那就在工作日找些時間關注你兒子的興趣愛好。 - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20170801/LIF154506.asp?source=rss

Science Says the Most Successful Kids Have Parents Who Do These 9 Things - https://www.inc.com[..]ids-who-thrive-science-says-do-thes.html

From 0 to 12 months - https://www.webmd.com[..]nting/baby/ss/slideshow-baby-development

但為什麼不在早期教育中教授這些技能呢？ 現任利茲大學商學院的Wandi Bruine de Bruin及其同事已經證明， 決策失誤的討論可以納入高中學生的歷史課程中 。 它不僅提高了後續合理性測試的表現; 它也促進了他們對歷史事實的了解。 - http://www.bbc.com[..]9-has-humanity-reached-peak-intelligence


“Part of what is so interesting and surprising about our study is that a simple manipulation — just the way people think about a past event — is changing their conclusions about what they’re doing and whether they’re interested or not,” Niese said.

“It’s something people could do on their own if they wanted to and gain these benefits in situations where cultural stereotypes or pre-existing beliefs might be likely to bias their judgment or cloud their memories.”

https://www.zmescience.com[..]erception-perspective-enjoyment-8235342/

Instead it is the quality of the conversation that is important. That is, the back and forth, turn-taking nature that requires listening and responding. It’s what Hirsh-Pasek and her long-time collaborator Roberta Golinkoff refer to as a “conversational duet”, because “you can’t sing it alone”. In fact, another study found that if a conversation is interrupted by a phone call, the child does not learn a newly presented word, but will learn it if the conversation is not interrupted. - https://www.bbc.com[..]-that-affects-how-your-babys-brain-grows https://dq.yam.com/post.php?id=11656

They found that children who watched Sesame Street were more likely to be academically on track, and less likely to be held back, than those who didn’t. - https://www.bbc.com[..]ren-find-weird-television-so-mesmerising

Instead of repeating the mistakes of previous generations with heavy-handed tactics, let’ understand the psychological source of the problem. Ultimately, parents’ goal should be to help kids learn strategies for coping with overuse on their own so that they do what’s good for them even when we’re not around. By teaching self-regulating habits, promoting intentional gaming, and helping kids find suitable alternatives, parents can help kids find what they are really looking for. - https://getpocket.com[..]mes-it-s-about-unmet-psychological-needs

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Sat Dec 14 20:56:18 HKT 2019 From /weblog/learning

creativity

Following the curiosity - http://michael.nona.name[..]chives/how-i-learn-1-follow-curiousness/

Creativity is often about 'Synthesis' - http://cipher-quaker.blogspot.com[..]9/12/what-avatar-can-teach-us-about.html

How to improve creativitiy? http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20120323/TRV113225.asp?source=rss

最成功的人，多少都帶點率性，都忠於自己。不是嗎？天天做著不喜歡的事，又怎能出類拔萃？有 Passion，自然就投入，就有幹勁。 http://thehousenews.com[..]%AD%E5%8A%9B%E7%9A%84%E4%BA%BA%E6%89%8D/

Analysis
Synthesis
Implementation

http://www.forbes.com[..]ity-the-hard-work-of-combinatorial-play/

Too much structured knowledge hurts creativity, shows study - https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/03/170322152736.htm

https://medium.com[..]s-of-highly-creative-people-9e30d0bd6782

如何培養創造力？達·芬奇給世人留下這三條秘訣 - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20171122/OPN165524.asp

How to Come Up with Great Ideas - https://queue.acm.org/detail.cfm?ref=rss&id=3203214

Read and write for creativity - https://medium.com[..]life-will-never-be-the-same-1dcc545664dc

One possible contributory factor is a personality style shared by many of my creative subjects. These subjects are adventuresome and exploratory. They take risks. Particularly in science, the best work tends to occur in new frontiers. - https://getpocket.com/explore/item/secrets-of-the-creative-brain

https://www.zmescience.com/science/the-psychology-of-creativity/

For me, the quest for a breakthrough often requires getting myself into literal motion; one small step for Poincaré but a whole sequence of steps for me. - https://www.newyorker.com[..]e-myth-and-magic-of-generating-new-ideas

When trying out creative ideas, go for your second choice, a new study finds - https://www.zmescience.com/science/creative-ideas-ranking-156244/

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Wed Dec 04 08:21:57 HKT 2019 From /weblog/learning

reading

智能手機時代的速讀技術 - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20140416/lif115306.asp?source=rss

Fun testing - http://projects.wsj.com/speedread/?mod=readin

Fun information, text layout related to speed of reading: http://www.codinghorror.com/blog/archives/000618.html

Martin fowler discuss about the skill of how to read/write a big big book http://martinfowler.com/bliki/DuplexBook.html , more discussion - http://blog.jayfields.com/2007/06/reading-technical-books.html

關掉手機 享受慢閱讀的樂趣 - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20141004/lif105708.asp?source=rss

这里有一个原则同学们要记住：不重要的学术作品大可不读，但重要的要反复重读，读多遍。不要相信重要作品的简化阐释，因为作者究竟怎样想我们不可能从简化的阐释中学到。 - http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_47841af70102ux5w.html

Rarely will I get through every section of every book.  The idea is to create a kind of dialogue among the authors, identifying points of overlap and difference.  Very often, the ideas from one book will trigger ideas that have you scouring the other books for elaboration.  The mixture of ideas from several books will lead to a thought that is not contained in any of the books.  When you read in parallel, it's like being in the room while the authors are conversing.  The intersecting of ideas almost always stimulates fresh ways of thinking about (and applying) the topic at hand. - http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]ding-in-parallel-becoming-better-at.html

Read for communication - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20170210/OPN170636.asp

https://qz.com[..]this-year-according-to-harvard-research/

在第一遍阅读时，你并不需要理解一个冗长计算的所有步骤。相反，默认它们是正确的，跳过它们，深入阅读关键的步骤。读公式之间的文字描述，读实验结果，读结论。当你大致明白了文章所谈论的东西之后，你再决定是否把时间花费在代数部分。不要在看不懂的步骤上花太多时间。当你以后有空时，可以重复阅读来慢慢理解它们。 - http://www.infoq.com[..]/2017/08/how-Read-machine-earning-papers https://www.reddit.com[..]achine_learning/?st=j6lm438g&sh=b1d9eba7

Reading to Learn: Why You Shouldn’t Read Beginning-to-End and What to do Instead - https://medium.com[..]-end-and-what-to-do-instead-4ab613e9a41d

I divided the day into four four-hour periods, of which I would be reading in three of the four-hour periods, and free one of them - https://betterhumans.coach.me[..]of-my-scholarship-and-study-68d1c35dd0d5

How And Why To Keep A “Commonplace Book” - https://ryanholiday.net/how-and-why-to-keep-a-commonplace-book/

So is there a way to speed up how quickly we can comprehend a word? When we read our inner voice sometimes vocalises the words in our head, and some suspect that this might slow us down. Could banishing that voice make a difference? Not necessarily. Internal vocalising might be helping us to understand what’s happening, according to research by eye-tracking psychologist Mallorie Leinenger.

But the good news is that there is a way of learning to read faster, and that is to practise. Again, we are not just limited by our vision. What matters is how fast you can identify a word – a process that is faster when the word is more familiar. So the more you read, the faster you can get. - https://www.bbc.com[..]icle/20191129-how-to-learn-to-speed-read

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Tue Dec 03 19:55:19 HKT 2019 From /weblog/learning

Don't do too much!

Issue of practice too much - http://www.bulletproofmusician.com[..]ow-many-hours-a-day-should-you-practice/ https://beginnerguitarhq.com/guitar-practice-routine/

Do best is far more important than do much

http://headrush.typepad.com[..]onate_users/2006/03/multitasking_ma.html
http://headrush.typepad.com[..]onate_users/2006/03/some_quick_link.html

Step back a bit - http://traderfeed.blogspot.com[..]4/perfecting-pause-from-emotions-to.html

Not goals. Goal. - http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]16/09/turning-goals-into-priorities.html

http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]/12/how-to-trade-with-peace-of-mind.html

Bias is a tool to prevent doing too much? https://betterhumans.coach.me[..]bias-cheat-sheet-55a472476b18#.7t2feab3b

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Sat Nov 30 09:42:06 HKT 2019 From /weblog/learning

memory

These 3 Hacks Will Make You Remember More - https://betterhumans.coach.me[..]will-make-you-remember-more-b30a3d9b3136

When trying to memorise new material, it’s easy to assume that the more work you put in, the better you will perform. Yet taking the occasional down time – to do literally nothing – may be exactly what you need. Just dim the lights, sit back, and enjoy 10-15 minutes of quiet contemplation, and you’ll find that your memory of the facts you have just learnt is far better than if you had attempted to use that moment more productively. - http://www.bbc.com[..]effortless-way-to-strengthen-your-memory

This one is funny: "Distract yourself. You might feel like you’re being super productive and focused by sticking to your work, but you’re less likely to recall it later." - https://medium.com[..]-and-it-can-actually-be-fun-99a9c9b95d5b

https://list25.com[..]proof-techniques-to-enhance-your-memory/

http://www.bbc.com[..]-make-you-smarter?ocid=global_future_rss

Drawing something makes it easier to remember than writing it down - https://www.zmescience.com[..]drawing-better-than-writting-memory-0432

http://www.bbc.com[..]s-your-memory-is-stranger-than-you-think

Frustrated at forgetting stuff? Some simple tricks could have dramatic positive effects.
1) Walk backwards
2) Do a drawing
3) Do some exercise, but get the timing right
4) Do nothing
5) Take a nap

http://www.bbc.com[..]-ways-you-could-become-a-memory-champion

In animals, weight training appeared to promote the creation of new neurons in the memory centers of the brain. - https://www.nytimes.com[..]w-weight-training-changes-the-brain.html

The method works something like this: you use a familiar environment, such as your home, and walk through the environment associating information (like words or digits) you want to remember with various objects or scenery. In order to recall the digits in the right order, you simply have to do a mental walk through your mind palace. In Lu’s case, he devised an intricate story, and assigned images such as a chair, a king or a horse to two-digit combinations of numbers ranging from “00” to “99.” - https://www.zmescience.com[..]e-but-theres-something-that-comes-close/

Most students take a laptop with them to lectures. But are there times when they might be better off taking a pad and pen? - https://www.bbc.com[..]en-the-best-way-to-take-notes-is-by-hand

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Sat Nov 09 22:11:44 HKT 2019 From /weblog/learning

habit

How habit affecting you - http://stephencfchan.blogspot.com[..]2012/02/poor-study-habit-and-remedy.html

How to change habit - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20120420/trv075618.asp?source=rss

How to quit bad habit - http://now.eloqua.com[..]028&elq=2220804c77864d95acba08b4a6f21c23

好奇心,细节 - http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_47841af70102e1yi.html

The most interesting things I've learnt about learning - http://jchyip.blogspot.com.au[..]-most-interesting-things-ive-learnt.html

The most interesting things I've learned about improvement - http://jchyip.blogspot.com.au[..]t-interesting-things-ive-learned_14.html

* Increase your exposure to new and different ideas
* Spend as much time learning from your trading as you actually spend trading
* Manage yourself, not just your risk and your positions

http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]hree-best-practices-of-best-traders.html

http://traderfeed.blogspot.com[..]/energy-well-being-and-success-four.html

直覺的奧妙 — Blink - https://thestandnews.com[..]%A6%BA%E7%9A%84%E5%A5%A7%E5%A6%99-blink/

1)  How does the person spend his or her free time?  Per Ayn Rand's observation above, what does he or she do for enjoyment?  

2)  How does the person respond to your successes?  Many people are willing to commiserate with you when you're down and elevate themselves in the process.  A person of genuine goodwill celebrates your successes and is happy for your happiness.

3)  What strong beliefs does the person voice and live through their actions?  Character means standing for what you believe in and living your beliefs.  Go along and get along might be comfortable, but commitment is what powers effective action in the world.

http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]hree-powerful-measures-of-character.html

Ask as a habit - https://thestandnews.com[..]%83%E9%80%99%E5%80%8B%E5%95%8F%E9%A1%8C/

practice consistently, stay warm - http://www.zmescience.com[..]brain/halo-starcraft-practice-excellence

Wake up early - https://medium.com[..]e-guide-for-waking-up-early-a750c011eb07

This will work, I believe, but really not easy - https://journal.thriveglobal.com[..]e-your-life-in-just-a-month-eed6c90ee6c4

3 Simple Habits to Improve Your Critical Thinking:
Question assumptions
Reason through logic
Diversify thought
- https://hbr.org[..]habits-to-improve-your-critical-thinking

A cue that triggers your brain to behave automatically
A routine that consists of some kind of action
A reward that reinforces the loop by giving you a good feeling
https://evernote.com[..]ur-productivity-and-how-to-take-it-back/

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Tue May 14 00:05:38 HKT 2019 From /weblog/learning

feedback

1. Create a structure for requesting feedback.
2. Get specific.
3. Act and report back.
http://www.michelemmartin.com[..]ee-tips-for-getting-better-feedback.html

3 Undisclosed Tips for Digital Creatives, 2 are getting feedback - http://www.targetprocess.com[..]isclosed-tips-for-digital-creatives.html

5 tips of getting feedback quicker - http://www.inside.com.tw[..]/04/02/5-tips-for-getting-replies-faster

Negative feedback antipatterns - http://blog.d3in.org[..]942984306/negative-feedback-antipatterns

How to give feedback - https://www.infoq.com/news/2017/05/feedback-software-teams http://www.infoq.com/cn/news/2017/05/feedback-software-teams

孩子衝動易怒怎麼辦？玩這種遊戲有望快速學會冷靜 - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20170913/LIF181719.asp

Asking for feedback isn’t the distraction — pretending that your employees don’t have feedback is. - https://m.signalvnoise.com/excuses-excuses-3a25cdafe06b

As a startup CEO, it is hard to take time to step back, reflect, and learn. But making it a mandatory routine — and actually calling it a captain’s log — has imbued the practice with power and meaning, both for me and the company I run.
- https://medium.com[..]ave-kept-for-over-300-years-db30bf1bad4c

研究表明，自我認知水平較高的人（懂得如何觀照自我、如何融入社會，對別人如何看待自己一清二楚）做出的決定會更明智，在學業和工作上會更出色，養育的孩子也更成熟。他們不太會撒謊、欺瞞和偷盜。他們與別人的關係也會更健康。- http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20171016/LIF152338.asp

Let's people complaint - https://blog.codinghorror.com/complaint-driven-development/

Don't fear of looking dumb - https://medium.freecodecamp.org[..]arning-fast-is-looking-dumb-9166fb78c234

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Thu Feb 21 00:30:42 HKT 2019 From /weblog/learning

goal

It's never too late to reinvent yourself.txt - http://headrush.typepad.com[..]ing_passionate_users/2005/01/you_20.html

Related interview - http://www.inside.com.tw[..]/06/16/jill-abramson-commencement-speech http://www.washingtonpost.com[..]sons-commencement-speech-at-wake-forest/

How to improve yourself - https://medium.com[..]w-to-impress-an-interviewer-c210d9d8e84a

1. Connect to Your Emotions
2. Email Prompts and Reminders to Yourself
3. Get an Accountability Partner
4. Start a Mastermind Group
http://www.michelemmartin.com[..]ccountable-for-achieving-your-goals.html

Don't set the goal too high -https:/[..]%88%E8%A8%82%E5%BE%97%E5%A4%A0%E4%BD%8E/

vision. A powerful vision has three elements: a significant purpose, a picture of the future, and a clear set of values. Goals speak to our brains, telling us what to do when. Vision speaks to our hearts, pulling us forward through a compelling sense of what can be.vision. A powerful vision has three elements: a significant purpose, a picture of the future, and a clear set of values. Goals speak to our brains, telling us what to do when. Vision speaks to our hearts, pulling us forward through a compelling sense of what can be. - https://www.forbes.com[..]by-truly-leading-your-life/#54bc6cba7ea0

Setting attainable goals makes us happier, even if we fail - https://www.zmescience.com[..]ience/attainable-goals-happiness-9536354

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Sat Dec 29 01:02:51 HKT 2018 From /weblog/learning

Learn fast

#1 – Pegging (or How Mental Magicians can Perfectly Recall Hundreds of Numbers)
#2 – Metaphor (Juliet is the sun… or is she a chemical formula?)
#3 – Total Immersion (Or How a Guy Can Become Fluent in 8 Languages)
#4 – Visceralization (What does a derivative look like?)
#5 – Linking (Or How to Remember a Grocery List Without the Paper)
#6 – The 5-Year Old Method (Try explaining quantum physics to a first grader)
#7 – Ambiance Catalysts (Or How Drinking a Pint Can Improve Your Studying)
#8 – Diagrams (Who said doodling in class was wrong?)
#9 – Speed Reading (Or How to Read 70 Books in a Year)

http://www.scotthyoung.com[..]ng-that-most-people-have-never-heard-of/

用 6 個步驟，熟悉一個產業 - http://www.inside.com.tw[..]g-domain-expertise-in-a-complex-industry

https://medium.com[..]-like-the-best-in-the-world-555fa4de5010

http://www.businessinsider.com[..].com/how-to-learn-anything-faster-2016-8

(Deliberate) practice makes perfect: how to become an expert in anything - https://medium.com[..]ecome-an-expert-in-anything-ec30e0c1314e

https://www.zmescience.com[..]e/explain-something-to-yourself-18122018

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Wed Jun 06 00:39:10 HKT 2018 From /weblog/learning

school

https://list25.com/25-reasons-you-should-stay-in-school/

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Thu May 17 22:32:49 HKT 2018 From /weblog/learning

personality

A prioritized list of desired traits:

Character
Critical thinking
Motivation
Creativity
Business knowledge
Technical knowledge

My only suspect is Technical knowledge is lower than Business knowledge, what will you think about this? - http://www.davenicolette.net/agile/index.blog?entry_id=1220879

Difference type of employee - http://headrush.typepad.com[..]onate_users/2007/03/is_your_app_an_.html

The Power of Introverts: A Manifesto for Quiet Brilliance - http://www.scientificamerican.com[..]fm?id=the-power-of-introverts&print=true http://h30565.www3.hp.com[..]How-to-Succeed-as-an-Introvert/ba-p/1522

Honesty - http://www.michelemmartin.com[..]elf-and-starting-from-where-you-are.html


23 Signs You’re Emotionally Intelligent & Destined for Success:

The ability to listen and to speak to the “human needs” of coworkers and customers and make them feel understood and respected
Ability to build relationships and connect with others on a deep level
Good conversation skills
The ability to propose solutions to problems, not just talk about problems
Meaningfully contribute to brainstorming
Ability to write well
Problem-solving skills
Being a team player
Being likeable
Self-confidence
Strong work ethic
Optimism/positive attitude
Good communication skills
Storytelling abilities for presentations
Time management abilities
Being good at “reading” people
Exercise tact when delivering a message

http://www.thepowerofintroverts.com[..]onally-intelligent-destined-for-success/


What Makes Good Traders Great Entrepreneurs

* An intense drive to succeed;
* The ability to adapt to changing circumstances;
* Decisiveness
* Energy
* Perseverance and determination
* Risk tolerance
* Strong self-confidence

http://traderfeed.blogspot.com.au[..]14/03/what-makes-good-traders-great.html

What is professional - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20140513/DJL071521.asp?source=rss

How to change your character: 索托說：“你應該從改變行為做起，接下來，如果你能長期保持這種新行為，這種行為就會被鎖定下來。 - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20140502/lif114051.asp?source=rss

If I say just trust me and I’m wrong, I’m untrustworthy. If I say here’s my work and it’s wrong, I’m honest, human, and serving scientific progress. - http://simplystatistics.org/2016/12/29/some-stress-reducers/

I Used To Be Shy. This Is How I Became Confident - https://medium.com[..]s-is-how-i-became-confident-f0b1d0ab5e29

Confidence is, in fact, a product of repetition … but not a product of success — it’s a product of failure. - https://psiloveyou.xyz/where-confidence-comes-from-785df9139d83

Everyone is given the exact fuel they need to succeed. But few use it. - https://medium.com[..]ess-you-need-to-become-more-6d0781b464c3

You Seek Money and Titles, Not Experience and Transformation - https://medium.com[..]e-will-remain-in-mediocrity-6c7e24c48d12

堅韌意志的秘密 - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20171124/OPN165323.asp

如何培養懂得感恩的孩子？ - http://cn.wsj.com/BIG5/20180309/OPN174053.asp

Conscientiousness
Adjustment
Ambiguity acceptance
Curiosity
Risk approach (or courage)
Competitiveness
http://www.bbc.com[..]ecrets-of-the-high-potential-personality

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Tue May 01 00:11:11 HKT 2018 From /weblog/learning

pause

http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk/2017/01/the-power-of-pause.html

When faced with a long creative problem, it is best to impose brief breaks on yourself. Brief mental breaks will actually help you stay focused on your task and improve your idea generation approach. A structured downtime can help you do your best work. - https://journal.thriveglobal.com[..]restore-high-level-thinking-d3c12707095f


This is why I need not fear the void.
Stay with the boredom.
Inhabit your claustrophobia, and take that small step.
The rewards will come. - https://medium.com[..]s-to-our-best-creative-work-104b613a41ae

sleep is important - https://medium.com[..]and-also-the-most-neglected-86b20249f06d

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Tue Mar 27 15:32:04 HKT 2018 From /weblog/learning

team

Why it is important to work in a team - http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]/the-importance-of-idea-velocity-in.html

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Fri Feb 23 00:27:45 HKT 2018 From /weblog/learning

positive

http://www.michelemmartin.com[..]stions-for-professional-development.html <- write it down, make it a story, visualize it.

http://time.com[..]-that-can-make-you-much-more-impressive/ <- The only change was this semester he presented more enthusiastically, gesturing with his hands and modulating his voice.

http://www.forbes.com[..]ing-by-asking-the-right-questions/print/ <- Appreciative inquiry (AI) has two important elements: becoming mindful of the questions we ask and directing those questions toward strengths and positive outcomes.

有趣的是，教授說切忌養大自尊心。她發現，美國加州很多關懷青少年的機構都提倡建立自尊心（Self-Esteem），卻無助吸煙、毒品等問題。因為自尊心由「成功」養大，遇到「失敗」馬上危危乎。它的本質已有比較，要成為自尊心強的人，你就要覺得自己很特別，也比他人強。
要做到「自我關懷」，我們要接受自己會做錯，偶爾偷懶讓自己休息一下，就像對待你身邊的好友。 - http://hk.apple.nextmedia.com[..]om/realtime/supplement/20160419/55001749

As outlined by recent research, it all seems as though confidence doesn't necessarily breed success. Interestingly, the self-reported writing skills of college freshmen has been going up over decades, while actual writing ability has dropped. Students rate themselves much higher in drive to succeed now than two or three decades ago, but the average time they spend studying has dropped meaningfully. - http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]k/2014/03/the-limits-of-self-belief.html

五萬隻鳥蛋的故事告訴我們，即使遇到一些普通如一隻鳥蛋那樣熟悉的事物，我們仍可在當中發掘新的知識，並需要勇氣挑戰舊的假設。 - https://thestandnews.com[..]B4%E4%BD%A0%E7%94%9A%E9%BA%BC-%E4%B8%8B/

Use negative emotion as an catalyst to success - http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]awareness-and-acceptance-in-trading.html

It's really true: confidence doesn't come from success alone, but rather from facing failure and moving beyond it. - http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]-most-important-reason-traders-cant.html

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Thu Feb 22 23:45:49 HKT 2018 From /weblog/learning

diversity

Connecting difference thing - http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]/connecting-dots-how-to-become-more.html

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Fri Feb 16 10:05:31 HKT 2018 From /weblog/learning

stress

In other words, both groups were stressed, but one group channeled the stress as a performance challenge; the other group as a performance threat. It wasn't the stress of a difficult test that caused distress--everyone felt that. It was how subjects interpreted their stress. - http://traderfeed.blogspot.com.au[..]mbracing-stress-minimizing-distress.html

http://nautil.us/blog/do-you-actually-need-more-stress

Calming when conflict - https://hbr.org/2015/12/calming-your-brain-during-conflict

https://aeon.co[..]ks-in-the-human-body-to-make-or-break-us

A Stanford psychologist has a simple mental exercise for tackling student stress - https://qz.com[..]l-exercise-for-tackling-student-anxiety/

The 40% rule is simple: When your mind is telling you that you’re done, that you’re exhausted, that you cannot possibly go any further, you’re only actually 40% done. ( umm... not sure if it really useful all the time ) - https://www.forbes.com[..]the-40-rule-the-simple-secret-to-success

“The ideal situation for improving learning and memory would be to experience no stress and to exercise,” Edwards said. - https://www.zmescience.com/science/stress-memory-exercise

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Tue Oct 03 22:06:17 HKT 2017 From /weblog/learning

speak

How to prevent "um...." - https://www.nytimes.com/2017/02/24/us/verbal-ticks-like-um.html

https://simpleprogrammer.com/2017/06/26/speaking-conferences/

Keep Up...If You Can: Use Trash Talk to Motivate Yourself - https://www.wsj.com[..]se-trash-talk-to-motivate-you-1499273788 http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20170803/LIF165201.asp?source=rss

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Fri Sep 29 00:00:12 HKT 2017 From /weblog/learning

action

Positive Professional Development: Insights Into Action - http://www.michelemmartin.com[..]ctblog/2011/07/insights-into-action.html

50 Productive Things To Do to Organize Your Life - http://www.thegeekstuff.com/2011/11/productive-things-todo

Pay to you children to teach you - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20121101/wvh072054.asp?source=rss

Tips on say no - http://cn.wsj.com/big5/20140327/lif113140.asp?source=rss

the-overthinkers-guide-for-taking-action - https://medium.com[..]ers-guide-for-taking-action-4670ca1f1b6d

The first step is never physical. It is entirely mental.
The first step is a decision.
A decision to commit. A decision to act. - https://medium.com[..]Robot/the-power-of-decision-74f0d8ca78d2

Asking questions is one of the most important habits for innovative thinkers. - https://hackernoon.com[..]e-you-a-better-entrepreneur-70ce98492aed

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Mon Sep 18 00:08:56 HKT 2017 From /weblog/learning

emotion

The more someone has actually been victimized, the more important it is to not live life as a victim. - http://traderfeed.blogspot.hk[..]1/living-life-as-origin-not-as-pawn.html

psychological-hacks - http://list25.com[..]l-hacks-to-control-almost-any-situation/

Happiness is a Compass, Not a Destination - https://medium.com[..]a-compass-not-a-destination-903f92cf586e

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Mon Aug 14 21:30:59 HKT 2017 From /weblog/learning

maths

How to learn maths? Make a story about it - https://hackernoon.com[..]not-to-memorise-mathematics-98fef71aefcf

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